After a short break from blogging and social media, I’m back! June started off a bit rocky; I was feeling very stressed and it was affecting other aspects of my life including my relationships and health. June did get better though and I’m thankful to all my friends and family that were there to help me de-stress. June was a month of biking, sunsets, celebrations and an unexpected vacation. Continue reading to see what I was up to in June!
10 Things I Learned From Online Dating and Why I Quit
I was first introduced to online dating by a classmate when I was in my 3rd year of university. She told me about Tinder–a new app that she was using and how she was going on many dates with various guys.
Her dates sounded amazing; she told me stories about how guys would show up to her place with flowers to take her to nice restaurants.
She suggested that I should try it out. As an introverted and slightly awkward 20-year old who had never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy, I gave online dating a try thinking that I had nothing to lose.
When I first started using Tinder, I had no idea how it worked. All I was doing was looking at people’s profiles and swiping left, wondering why I wasn’t getting any matches.
I soon realized that I had to swipe right for people that I was interested in. Although I was getting matches, I wasn’t talking to many people and soon got bored. I decided to look into other dating apps and downloaded Plenty of Fish and OKCupid.
Through the course of my online dating journey, I’ve been on many dates– many good and many bad. I’ve had the most success on Tinder compared to OKCupid and Plenty of Fish. Although Tinder carries a negative connotation, I found that the guys on OKCupid and Plenty of Fish were no better in quality than the guys on Tinder.
Here are 10 things I learned from online dating. Read to the end to find out why I quit!
It’s been almost exactly a year since I’ve graduated with my Bachelor of Arts from UBC and although sometimes I miss being a student, I don’t miss things like the nights pulling all-nighters, being broke and elevated levels of stress. What I miss the most is seeing my friends on campus and the social activities on campus.
UBC was a time of new experiences and self-learning for me. I was really shy when I first entered university, so I decided to join a sorority in my third year and my experience in a sorority really helped me with my shyness. Although I’m now working towards a field unrelated to what I majored in, I had a great time in university and met the most amazing people.
Here are 15 things learned a year after graduating university:
Happy hump day! I can’t believe it’s already May; April was a month filled with gluttony, cherry blossoms, learning and rain. As April came to an end, so did my practicum at UBC Communications and Marketing. I’ve learned so much during my practicum and I’ll definitely miss the people the most.
Here’s a glimpse of my April in photos:
One thing I’m going to miss about my practicum is being on UBC’s beautiful campus. I took this photo on the last week of my practicum.
Although I live in Vancouver, I’ve been spending more time in Richmond and discovering what Richmond has to offer. With the sunnier weather, I’ve also been trying to bike more often.
During my bike ride along Steveston Village, I had to stop for some frozen yogurt from Timothy’s Frozen Yogurt. I got my frozen yogurt with peaches and mango in it and it was delicious as always.
Hi, welcome to my blog where I’ll be documenting the things I love and my life in Vancouver.
Here are 10 random facts about me:
- I am obsessed with dogs but I don’t own any pets (yet)
- I’ve never broken a bone despite being in two major car accidents
- I am currently studying digital marketing communications but I also work in the auto industry doing event marketing
- I would classify myself as an extroverted introvert or an ambivert
- I’ve lived in Vancouver my whole life and have lived in the same neighbourhood in East Vancouver my whole life
- I love to eat but I hate tofu
- I don’t like wearing pants (unless I’m working out) and prefer to wear dresses and skirts
- I won my high school’s graduating class home economics award and wanted to become a home economics teacher but realized early on that teaching was not for me
- I hate the word ‘millennial’
- My biggest driving pet peeve is when people don’t signal/use their blinkers
Thanks for reading and stay tuned for more posts!